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         <title>New Year&apos;s Day 2009 Lafayette Reservoir Walk</title>
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We have a tradition of going for a walk around the Lafayette Reservoir on New Year's Day, and we try to always do it with friends.  It's a pleasant way to enjoy the outdoors and appreciate having such a gorgeous place right in our "back yard".  This year, we enjoyed the company of Colin, Sarah, Maggie, and Sam on a brisk, beautiful day.  It was a fun start to 2009!
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         <pubDate>Thu, 01 Jan 2009 22:00:00 -0800</pubDate>
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         <title>Lily and Ari - Christmas 2008</title>
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We were very happy that Jene, Carter, and Lily came to visit for Christmas this year.  It brought us all joy to see Ari and Lily get to know each other more, especially now that they're both old enough to be more aware of and truly interact with one another.  They got a long well and seemed to have fun playing together!
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         <pubDate>Mon, 29 Dec 2008 22:00:00 -0800</pubDate>
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         <title>Fun at Larkey Park</title>
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It's hard to believe that Arianna is 15 months old today.  We went to play at Larkey Park this afternoon and we all had a great time!
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         <pubDate>Sun, 28 Dec 2008 20:00:00 -0800</pubDate>
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         <title>Christmas Present, Christmas Past</title>
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When Ania was young, she and her sisters would decorate the Christmas tree with their mother.  Ari and Ania continued that tradition this year and Arianna delighted in helping her mommy.  Looking at cards and pictures from years gone by inspired warm thoughts of friends and family and memories of "Christmas Past".
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         <pubDate>Thu, 18 Dec 2008 22:30:00 -0800</pubDate>
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         <title>Getting Ari&apos;s 2nd Christmas Tree</title>
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We went to get our 8th and Ari's 2nd Christmas tree today.    She wasn't too happy about the chainsaw in the background, but she had fun smelling the trees, and we love to see her scrunch up her nose as she consciously uses her new-found sense to experience a different aspect of the world around her.
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<img alt="Reservoir Walk" vspace="10" src="http://alwaysaskwhy.com/james/blog/images/Arianna/PHOTO-SUMMARY-getting-Aris-2nd-Christmas-tree-2008.12.07">
<p>
Ari was just 12 weeks old when we took her <a href="http://james.alwaysaskwhy.com/blog/2007/12/week_12_aris_first_christmas_tree.html">the first time</a>.  She probably won't remember going this time either, but we always go to the same place and we'll take her there many more times in the years to come.  This is another tradition that Arianna enriches as part of our family.
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         <pubDate>Sun, 07 Dec 2008 20:00:00 -0800</pubDate>
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         <title>Sweet Morning Baby</title>
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I just wanted to share a bit of the sweetness we get to enjoy every morning with our baby girl. :)
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         <pubDate>Fri, 05 Dec 2008 10:35:00 -0800</pubDate>
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         <title>Redwood Regional Park Trail Walk</title>
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We want Arianna to enjoy being out in nature as much as we do, and today, we took her on a trail walk in Redwood Regional Park.
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<p>
We did <a href="http://james.alwaysaskwhy.com/blog/2007/01/winter_hike_in_redwood_regional_park.html">a more rigorous hike there once before</a> and loved it.  The great thing about the place is that you can do an easy walk like we did today, or a challenging hike with lots of elevation changes, but either way, it's a gorgeous place and you really feel  surrounded by nature.  There are people, but not enough to make it feel crowded.
</p>
<p>
Arianna was excited to see all the people, dogs, birds, trees, and even a cat.  The first thing she did when we put her down to walk around and explore was to bend down and pick up a stick.  There were lots of them and she would have inspected each one if we'd let her, so maybe she'll be a nature girl after all!
</p>
<p>
She's just started to get comfortable with walking and had a bit of trouble negotiating the slight incline of the trail.  We couldn't help but chuckle as she tumbled forward a few times.  Unfortunately, she got a bump on the head, but she shook it off and kept going like the tough girl she is.
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         <pubDate>Sat, 29 Nov 2008 16:30:00 -0800</pubDate>
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         <title>Reservoir Walk - Fall Colors</title>
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We went for a walk around Lafayette Reservoir to enjoy the beautiful day outside.
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<p>
I carried Arianna half way around the reservoir on my back, then she decided to make us proud by walking for a while on her own.
</p>

<img alt="Reservoir Walk" vspace="10" src="http://alwaysaskwhy.com/james/blog/images/Arianna/PHOTO-SUMMARY-Ari-Reservoir-01-2008.11.22.jpg">

<p>
Ari had fun playing in the leaves; I think she likes the Fall as much as her parents!
</p>

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         <pubDate>Sat, 22 Nov 2008 16:00:00 -0800</pubDate>
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         <title>Happy Halloween 2008!</title>
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We didn't think Ari could get any cuter, but we just loved seeing her in her ladybug costume!
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         <pubDate>Fri, 31 Oct 2008 22:00:00 -0800</pubDate>
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         <title>Pumkin Patch 2008</title>
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Ania, Ari, and I went to get our pumpkins today.  This was Arianna's second time enjoying <a href="http://james.alwaysaskwhy.com/blog/2005/10/pumpkin_patch.html">our tradition of getting pumkins at Mangini's</a>.  She wasn't even a month old her <a href="http://james.alwaysaskwhy.com/blog/2007/10/aris_first_pumpkin_patch.html">first time</a>.
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<a href="http://alwaysaskwhy.com/james/blog/images/Pumpkin-Patch-LARGE-2008.jpg"><img alt="Pumpkin Patch 2008" vspace="10" src="http://alwaysaskwhy.com/james/blog/images/Pumpkin-Patch-2008.jpg"></a>]]></description>
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         <category>Holidays</category>
         <pubDate>Sat, 25 Oct 2008 16:00:00 -0800</pubDate>
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         <title>Arianna Says Thanks For a Great 1st Birthday Party!</title>
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Everyone who was a part of it made Arianna's first birthday party a very special and fun day for her, and she seemed to have a great time.  Thanks to everyone for being a part of her happy day and sharing our joy in celebrating her!
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         <pubDate>Sun, 28 Sep 2008 22:00:00 -0800</pubDate>
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         <title>In Support of &quot;Bark&quot; Obama</title>
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We saw this at the <a href="http://www.solanoavenueassn.org/strol.htm">Solano Stroll</a>:
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         <pubDate>Sun, 14 Sep 2008 22:00:00 -0800</pubDate>
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         <title>Week 45 | Fun in the Sun</title>
         <description><![CDATA[<img alt="Ari - Week 45" hspace="10" vspace="10" src="http://alwaysaskwhy.com/james/blog/images/Arianna/Ari-Week-45-2008.08.08.jpg">

<p>
Saturday night, Ania and I went out for a date for the first time in a while.  We had a reservation for our anniversary dinner last year at <a href="http://www.bistroaix.com/">Bistro Aix</a> &mdash the place we had our first date & got engaged &mdash; but Arianna was born that night, so we decided to go there, and had a great evening out.  We needed to get out by ourselves, and we knew she was in good hands with Grandma Wanda.  Of course, we had to say goodbye to Arianna before we left: 
</p>
<img alt="Saying bye-bye before date night" hspace="10" vspace="10" src="http://alwaysaskwhy.com/james/blog/images/Arianna/saying-bye-bye-before-date-night-2008.08.02.jpg">

<p>
We've all been enjoying the gorgeous Summer weather lately, and Sunday, the four of us went for a walk at Lafayette Reservoir and enjoyed being outside in the sun.
</p>
<img alt="Reservoir walk" hspace="10" vspace="10" src="http://alwaysaskwhy.com/james/blog/images/Arianna/PHOTO-SUMMARY-Reservoir-walk-with-Grandma-Wanda-2008.08.03.jpg">

<p>
For the first time, Arianna stood up on her own from seated position in her crib, so we lowered her mattress all the way.  It seems so low!  It's amazing to consider that she's grown so much that we have to do this, but sad that it means she's one step further away from being a little baby.  At the same time, this is a wonderful sight first thing in the morning:
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<img alt="Happy standing baby" hspace="10" vspace="10" src="http://alwaysaskwhy.com/james/blog/images/Arianna/happy-standing-baby-2008.08.jpg">

<p>
We took Ari swimming again and she still likes being in the pool.
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<img alt="Swimming" hspace="10" vspace="10" src="http://alwaysaskwhy.com/james/blog/images/Arianna/Ari-swimming-2008.08.05.jpg">

<p>
Arianna has discovered the joy of laughter, and she's started to laugh spontaneously to make us laugh, and it always works.  It's adorable and wonderful to have her communicate with us in yet another new and joyful way.
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Milestones & Metrics
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Stood up on her own from seated position in her crib (8 Aug)
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We lowered crib mattress to lowest setting
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Started to laugh to make us laugh
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How Arianna looks this week:
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<img alt="Ari Closeups - Week 45" hspace="10" vspace="10" src="http://alwaysaskwhy.com/james/blog/images/Arianna/PHOTO-SUMMARY-Ari-Closeups-Week-45-2008.08.jpg">
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         <pubDate>Fri, 08 Aug 2008 22:00:00 -0800</pubDate>
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         <title>Where&apos;s Arianna?</title>
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<b>Theeeerree's Arianna!</b>
</p>

<p>
Ari really likes peek-a-boo.
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<img alt="Ari peeking between crib slats" hspace="10" vspace="10" src="http://alwaysaskwhy.com/james/blog/images/Arianna/Ari-peeking-between-crib-slats-2008.08.02.jpg">

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         <pubDate>Sun, 03 Aug 2008 22:45:00 -0800</pubDate>
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         <title>Week 44 | Hug!</title>
         <description><![CDATA[<img alt="Ari - Week 44" hspace="10" vspace="10" src="http://alwaysaskwhy.com/james/blog/images/Arianna/Ari-Week-44-2008.08.01.jpg">

<p>
I thought the <a href=http://james.alwaysaskwhy.com/blog/2008/07/week_43_tugging_at_my_heartstrings.html">crying when I left</a> was something emotional, but my goodness, <b>now Ari can give <em>hugs</em></b>!  Words just aren't relevant when it comes to describing that feeling.  It's the cutest thing ever; she tilts her head toward me, trying to rest it on my shoulder while I'm holding her.  I could hold her like that <em>forever</em> &mdash; this is truly one of the rewards of parenthood!
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<p>
She's started pointing distinctly and directly at what she wants.  Before, she was putting her arm out and leaning in the direction she wanted to go, but this is different.  She's very specific and precise, and she uses a single finger.  She engages you, then locks her eyes on her target, so you'll follow her gaze.  It's like she's got a laser pointer!  As with the Daddy Taxi, Ari is simply not hesitant to involve others in helping her achieve what she wants.  I like that she's so inclined to pursue her desires.
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<p>
Sometimes she puts pointing together with the "surprise noise", when she wants to direct or catch your attention to show you something.  I am dying to know what she would say when she shows me stuff!  As it is, we talk about it with her, both to help her know we acknowledge what she's doing, and to start helping her identify, explain, and put what she's showing us in context.
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<p>
The pointing is especially apparent when we're feeding her; she'll point to the cup of water until we give her some.  She doesn't seem to have learned the signs for "drink" or "water" yet, but if we make them, she'll turn and look right at the cup, and she already knows exactly where it is.  "Does Arianna want some water?"
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<p>
She's really getting physically strong and dextrous now.  Ania had a good idea to hand her individual pieces of fruit, vegetables, cereal, etc., in addition to her normal scooping and picking off the tray or plate.  The idea is to give her more practice specifically with the pincer motion, which it seems she only just developed, but now has all but mastered.  She can move, rotate, twist, and roll her body at will, and proto-crawls when she sees that as the most efficient transportation.
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<p>
The notable thing is the facility she has with all these movements; she's building up a repertoire of them and has some down pat.  She can push buttons and operate switches on toys that used to frustrate me because I thought they required too much physical strength.  (She got the concept and had the dexterity, just not the strength.)  There are still some she can't push, but the list is getting smaller fast.
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<p>
Grandma Wanda is leaving soon, so we went to the <a href="http://www.buildabear.com">Build a Bear Workshop</a> and she made a special teddy bear for Arianna, with a recording of her voice, so Ari can hear her any time she wants.
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<img alt="PHOTO SUMMARY Wanda builds a bear for Ari" hspace="10" vspace="10" src="http://alwaysaskwhy.com/james/blog/images/Arianna/PHOTO-SUMMARY-Wanda-builds-a-bear-for-Ari-2008.07.26.jpg">

<p>
Arianna adds so much beauty to our lives!
</p>
<img alt="Springtime baby" hspace="10" vspace="10" src="http://alwaysaskwhy.com/james/blog/images/Arianna/Springtime-baby-2008.07.26.jpg">
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<img alt="Pensive in her highchair" hspace="10" vspace="10" src="http://alwaysaskwhy.com/james/blog/images/Arianna/Ari-pensive-in-highchair-2008.08.01.jpg">


<h2>
Milestones & Metrics
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Giving us hugs
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Sat up on her own from lying on her back
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Pointing distinctly at what she wants
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Showing us things
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How Arianna looks this week:
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<img alt="Ari Closeups - Week 42" hspace="10" vspace="10" src="http://alwaysaskwhy.com/james/blog/images/Arianna/PHOTO-SUMMARY-Ari-Closeups-Week-44-2008.08.jpg">
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         <pubDate>Fri, 01 Aug 2008 22:00:00 -0800</pubDate>
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